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Increased awareness and compassion

I think for me the most rewarding thing has just been an increased awareness and compassion for people's limits.  I am much more vocal about people smoking around children because they often cannot speak up for themselves, and I know better than to laugh at someone for having an EpiPen, or any kind of medication.

–Michelle, 22

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I've been through it all, and I turned out OK

Well I've participated in studies, and I've been to asthma camp. I've done stuff that can be rewarding.  Being able to tell my story right now is probably my most rewarding experience ever, because I have so much history and so much to say about asthma, and I can relate to a kid's point of view about having it, or to a young adult's, or even to a teenager's point of view about what it's like to deal with asthma in high school.  There was one situation I got into where it was like my first kiss and the one thing he said was, “Are you going to have an asthma attack?”  It was embarrassing.  Of course I'm like, “No!”  My point is at all ages I've been affected by asthma, but I've turned out OK.

–Bridget, 26

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So many ways to get around it

Asthma taught me that even if you're different or have something that holds you back, there are so many ways to get around it.  And knowing that has helped me to do other hard things in life.

–Allie, 18

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Asthma is sensitive

I think it's important for people to realize how sensitive asthma is.  It is absolutely IMPERATIVE that people not smoke around children with asthma, especially because they are generally not assertive enough to ask you to stop, even though it is cruel and harmful.  This is true for all children, but children with asthma suffer immensely around smoke.  I also think it's important for people to know that, like any physical ailment, it can be embarrassing, so people should be sensitive and never make fun of someone's inhaler.

–Michelle, 22

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We have to find a way around it

I would say only that life is filled with obstacles we have to overcome.  Asthma can often be a big obstacle that keeps us from doing the small things, but we have to work and find a way around it, whether it's through being better about taking our medicines or through building up slowly to bigger goals.

–Michelle, 22

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I can't stress enough not to smoke around your kids

I just can't stress enough not to smoke around your kids.  You will not only be hurting them physically, but you will also put them in a position of having to choose between wanting to be with you and wanting to be able to breathe.

–Michelle, 22

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Taking your inhaler is more important than someone laughing at you

And for kids, not being able to breathe is one of the worst and scariest feelings ever and taking your inhaler is always more important than worrying about someone laughing at you.  Everybody's got something that makes things hard for them.

–Michelle, 22

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Take precautions so that you can work around asthma

Don't let it affect your life more than it has to.  Take precautions— always have your inhaler, always warn people of situations where you might have an asthma attack, explain what might happen if you do have attack so they're not freaked out if you do— if you take these precautions, having asthma won't be that big of deal.  If it doesn't seem foreign to other people, they'll know how to work around it.

–Allie, 18

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I can still play around and be silly

Even though I have asthma I can still play around and be silly.  And when you have asthma, it doesn't mean you can't play around and have fun.  It just means you have to control your asthma so you won't be sick.

–Jared, 10

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You can still play

Even if you have asthma, you can still play what you were playing, and go to school, and run around.

–Anthony, 8

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It's OK to have asthma

It's OK to have asthma because I have asthma, too, and you can play with me.  I can play with you in your house or you can play with me in my house.  I can show you how to take your medicines, and I'll show you how I take my medicine.

–Allison, 9

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Updated: June 5, 2007
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